“With my two left feet, I could never learn to dance.”
“I want to meet people who are interested in growing together on the dance floor.”
“I wish I knew more people when I go out dancing.”
“I would feel better if I could just get out of my own head.”
“I wish I had the tools to practice more”
“I wish I could take the instructor home with me because I can’t remember half of the things I learned in dance class.”
“I just want to feel comfortable dancing in any environment.”
“I wish I could find a way to work out without going to the gym.”
...Then, SDE is your personally customized solution!


Kermit here,
I was fortunate that when I first started dancing, there were over 100 students in my beginner’s class, I’m not the most extroverted person, but it did allow me to meet others that were just as determined as I was to learn to dance. My fellow beginner dancers and I would schedule a time to go out and dance together, I was very much intimidated by what I saw some of the experienced dancers do on the dance floor, but I was never afraid to dance with the ladies that were in my class.
I was consistently in class, and at the end of each class, the instructor would always encourage us to go home and practice. I would always think if I had a video of this class to know I am practicing correctly, that would be helpful. Luckily, I had a sister who is much more of a dancer than I will ever be, so anytime I had a question, I would call her, or I would arrange a time for us to get together and practice. She was always willing to help me with the difficulties I was experiencing, just not necessarily as quickly as I wanted her to.
One year after I started dancing, I was asked to teach a class. I would take a class on Monday, and on Tuesday, I would regurgitate the same instructions I heard on Monday. I became obsessed with the idea of finding a way to enhance individuals' learning experiences. I thought if only I could find a way for individuals to meet each other, hang out together, and start their own practice groups. I realized that no matter what level of dancer you are, study groups with your peers will help everyone transform their dance much quicker than we could ever grow alone.
In 2020, Covid-19 shut down everyone’s dance class. After many discussions, Kevin and I decided we had to find a way to continue the joy of dance throughout the pandemic, and alas, a community was born.

Hi folks, Kevin here.
Growing up in Washington, DC, I saw my family members Hand Dancing at all the social events. When my parents and their friends had parties, the adults would dance in the basement while all of us kids would sit on the steps and watch. My mom, who was a great dancer, tried to teach me, but I could never pick it up.
Years later, my good friend invited me to a social club to hang out. I had no idea we were going to a Hand Dance venue. Folks were showing out and having a ball, and all I could do was watch because I couldn’t dance. Coincidentally that same locale hosted a very popular class taught by the legend himself, Mr. Lawrence Bradford. I signed up the first opportunity I got and joined the next session of classes. I’ll admit that I was nervous and almost backed out. I’m so glad I didn’t.
Learning to dance in a structured, progressive environment was so much easier than trying to learn from my family members. The class moved at a pace that allowed me to advance consistently while having fun with my classmates, graduates, instructors, and other members of the dance community. I realized then that being in a setting with both aspiring and trained dancers allowed me to learn, grow and advance so much faster than trying to do it alone.
That introduction to social dancing led me to compete, teach, and share our art forms with thousands of dancers over the past 23 years. As importantly, I’ve learned to love and appreciate all forms of Urban Social Dancing throughout the country. However, in 2020 our classes were forced to a halt due to the pandemic. That’s when Kermit and I began searching for tools to unite dance communities and share the uniqueness and brilliance of all forms of Urban Social Dancing.
That search has led to the creation of SocialDanceExchange.com (SDE). Through interviews with various dancers across genres, we quickly learned that they sought more than just instruction. They were looking to meet fellow dancers who share our love of dance, take on challenges we didn't think were possible, and bring more moments of joy, excitement, and connection into our daily lives through community.
I believe SDE checks all the boxes, and I can hardly wait to see your positive impact on this growing social dance phenomenon. Enjoy.

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